This post (article) is a follow up to my last post on this issue. When I write on issues like this, I am speaking from experience, research and things I hear people say in the barbershops, coffee shops, etc.
As I said before, nice guys finish last. When young women (who love bad boys) grow to be 30-35 years old, they then decide they want a nice guy. This is true. What you will find in today’s world is that the nice guy is stomped on, ran over, and is only seen as a friend by most young women. He’s the guy they tell all their problems to, and all their relationship problems to. But they will never consider dating this guy. He’s too nice! This is why most nice guys turn to the bad boy image, and utterly becomes the bad boy. It’s obvious. The nice guy quickly finds out, being too nice will quickly get you put in a woman’s friend zone.
Moreover, when young women (most but not all) say they can’t find a good man, they mean a man they are attracted to. Remember that fellows. It doesn’t matter if he’s a thug, gangster, or a complete jerk. He is a good man as long as they are attracted to him. They call this chemistry. But it’s not chemistry if he doesn’t feel the same way about her as she feels about him. Remember that ladies.
These are some commonly held myths women have about nice guys:
1.They think nice guys are weak and can’t protect them.
2. They think nice guys are boring and predictable.
Nothing can be further from the truth. Good men will fight harder for their women than bad boys. It’s a proven fact. Bad boys beat their women and use them up. It happens all the time. Something is wrong when a man like Ted Bundy (who had raped, tortured, and murdered women) was receiving 200 letters a day from women who claimed they loved him. God bless America!
My conclusion: Pick good people, nice people, and worthy people to be with. Don’t waste your “youth”, energy and time on losers and people who play games. The world already has too many problems. Let’s not add more problems to it.